Prize or doormat cont.

What women like Lisa do not seem to understand is that men are very trainable. You are teaching him how to treat you every time he is with you. Lisa is very nice. Too nice, Lisa is not nice to herself. She doe's not understand that overcompensating to get a man to love you NEVER WORKS! It is the kiss of death to attraction and love. Men do not love and respect women who do not love and respect themselves. Think of it like this. If you were to take a bear head and leave it on a man's doorstep he would have a fit -might even call the police because he doe's not want your old bear head. Now reverse the situation, say he killed a bear. The first thing he would do is proudly display the head in his favorite room and brag to everyone that he had killed it. The difference is (he worked for the bear, men are very labor-intensive. They take the same mentality with their women. A man will never fall in love with a woman who he does not have to work for! Working for you drives him further in love with you. Never follow Lisa's example. She is a classic example of what not to do. She bent over backwards for him (mistake 1) She allowed herself to become pregnant by a man who was NOT committed to her (mistake 2) She paid for her own abortion and then continued to see him(mistake 3) She is letting him drive the relationship by letting him decide when and if anything happens.
He decides a. when they get together
b. when they sleep together
c. when he has time for her (big mistake)
d. If he will spend any money on her.

She dishonored herself and being a man he was more than happy to continue this action. You MUST think so highly of yourself that you would never consider allowing him to mistreat you. It will probably be easier to understand if we take it from Janet's perspective. Janet is nice too yet never a fool. Janet is available, but just a little bit. She knows how to keep a man on edge. When a man does not have a 100% hold on a woman, he stays on his toes. Janet loves herself and will never drop her plans to follow what a man wants to do. If she has prior plans-she keeps them. She is sweet yet selective. She sometimes accommodates him and sometimes not. He can never predict what will happen. Nothing about her is easy yet men would drop everything to be with her. She is a CHALLENGE AND MEN LOVE A CHALLENGE. If a man behaved in a unbecoming manner Janet would never scream and cry she would simply have no further contact with him. She would never have an unwanted abortion and certainly never chase a man! Ladies chasing IS FOR MEN! You have no business chasing a Man! The only thing that will result from this (besides him thinking you are desperate,) is that he Will Run! Janet holds herself like a prize because this is the way she sees herself. Newsflash-( times out of 10 men will perceive you the way you perceive yourself!) Janet drives her relationships, she is classy, elegant, and thinks highly of herself. This alone puts her much higher than many women yet there is still more. Janet knows how to fit herself to a man -very few women understand this secret. Janet knows how to let the side of her personality out that will helplessly draw a man to her. Watching her is to watch poetry in motion because she is so good at it. She knows how to use language to draw and trigger a man to do anything. She knows how to drive a man to the brink and watch him teeter helplessly, she knows how to bring him to his knees, or even to begging... Janet has secrets women would kill for, we will be learning some of her secrets every week. They will be marked love-lessons and there will be at least 1 per week. Come with us and learn how to do more than make a man fall in love learn how to bring him to his knees....like Janet.