BM and their new tricks!

This is a letter I received in my email recently from a bm pretending to feign concern for the plight of bw. (lol)

Here is the letter word for word:

I just discovered your your blog today. I'm a black male writing from Detroit,
Michigan and I've been keeping my eye on the black female IR blogs. I'm not gonna go to deep about me right now; I have dated inter-racially but my wife is black. I think its cool that sistas are opening their options.
I'll write a more detailed message next time but for now...Just wanted to know if you saw the Tyra Banks Show today? I don't usually watch her show plus I'm usually at work during the day. Today she did on a show on men exposing their sexual fantasies about women, either of their own race or another race. There were black, white, Asian and Latino men. It was kinda sad; at the end, four women, black, Latina, Asian and white were put on stage. There were about 12 men onstage and they were told to go stand next to the woman that they would fantasize about sexually.

Not ONE man stood next to the sista! Every other woman had three or four men standing next to her except the sista! Then Tyra asked the men to stand next to the woman they would most likely take home to mama. One of the brothas then stood next to the sista; the other brotha did not! It was a shame and Tyra made a comment on how the sista was the only woman not chosen as a sexual fantasy. Funny thing; she was very pretty, very fair-skinned and had long hair. You would think more men would have wanted her...NOT!

If you didn't see the show, just let me know what you think from what I described. Black women are least of all of the racial groups to marry inter-racially. What is your take on what happened on the TB Show? Looking at the photos on your blog, I admit that there were a few surprises there are far as white men, some of them very powerful, with their black wives. Their choices, I admit, were a little surprising too. A few of those white men didn't have the "mulatto" type women; you know, the Tyra, Halle, Gabriel Union, Sanaa Lathan, Nia Long types. Some of them had some STRAIGHT UP SISTAS!!

Anyway, hope to hear from you...
MG

He heard from me alright, bet he was not expecting that response!
I wanted you ladies to know what we sistas are up against. This is a new technique for DBRBM. Why do I call him damaged? Because if you carefully read the letter, behind his feigned concern, is the message we BW have been getting from BM ever since some of us have decided to 'try something new'. The 'real message' of this letter is this: You black women think you can step out of the box, unfortunately for you, yall have no choice but to put up with the BS of brothas because nobody else wants you! Do you see how undesirable you are now? Or do we brothas have to keep reminding yall dumb asses?

Now I actually did not watch Tyra's show. But even if I had I certainly would have had better sense than to base the desirability of millions of beautiful bw on the opinions of 8 (Supposedly random men!). Although I do not for one minute believe that they were random, I believe they were specifically picked in order to yield a specific 'reaction'. I would never take the word of a Semi-serious 'talk show' for legitimate information of any kind. The show, to me is not the issue, The fact that this man had the nerve to insult our intelligence by passing off some 'contrived ' talk show, as a accurate reflection of the mindset of millions of wm is laughable. Then to feign concern, while surreptitiously attempting to demean the self esteem of bw once again, really bothers me. That and the fact that, in his ignorance he is also endorsing colorism! And had the nerve to call those sisters "mulatto types" Except for halle, Not one of them was even mixed! How the hell, could these women who ranged from light (halle) to dark (gabriel) ever be considered mulatto types! Halle does not even consider herself mulatto! She always says" I am a black woman with a white mamma" And then to go on, "she was quite pretty, with fair skin and long hair! " as if a dark skinned, short haired, sister could not be every bit as beautiful! He is a typical ignorant, damaged, and pathetic brother. Oh, and did you hear the last comments, "I was surprised by their choice, some of them had straight up sisters' Once again, demonstrating his ignorance! Anyone lucky enough to get a sister is a lucky man indeed! We are some of the most, devoted, devout, 'stand by your man,' type of women out there! Sisters, this to me is just one of the reasons for we bw need to 'ease on down the road' We need to recognize a man who really has our best interests at heart, and one who is just pretending to. This is their new approach, you see. Now all advice is on the pretence of ' just trying to help' (lol) And to imply that sistas who are not jet-black are less than real or are 'mulatto type' how ignorant! The only mixed woman in the bunch he just mentioned is halle! You and I know they were ALL STRAIGHT UP SISTAS! Sistas, you can wait in that line of fools if you want to, waiting for brothas to get their act together. But honey, life is short. Far, far to short for me to waste my precious time on idiots like this who think they have the right to monitor interracial blogs, and pretend they are doing so because they are concerned, as if we lack the mental capability to make our own choices. Then they feel the cogent need to inform us that we are undesirable, unworthy, and unwanted, yet they have only our best interests at heart. Bullshit! Don't ever allow yourselves to fall for this line of bs. Ladies, you are beautiful! You are desirable! You are wanted! As I have said many times, there are more wm who want sistas, than there will ever be enough sistas to accommodate them! Brush these men off like dust and keep on stepping. I liken this man to the abusive husband who beats his defenseless wife to a pulp, and then tells her " go on and leave me-but nobody else will want your broken, bloody, scarred up ass either!" Ladies, please tell every bw you know to look out for her own best interests. Please continue to help other sistas to WAKE UP! Most bm do not have your back and are just using a new type of subjugation! The kind that slides in under the guise of 'concern' .

PS. Love type # 3 will be posted in 1 day. (feeling man)