anything -long as it's white

The other day, I had an experience I'm sure alot of BW have had. I was watching extreme make overs, when I saw an extremely unattractive white woman crying over how ugly she thought she was. she had bucked teeth, stringy hair, horrible skin, and looked extremely dirty and unkempt. I thought to myself " I know she's not married" Then they showed her husband. Sure enough she was married to a black man!
Then I thought "oh should have known, you can look like sh*t and still get a black man as long as you're white" I reprimanded myself for being so cynical yet the I still felt/have experienced the same thing. As long as you are white it does not seem to matter how ugly you are, how stupid you are, or even how racist you are. You can always get a black man. Is this always the case? Of course not-does it seem to be most often? unfortunately yes, even white women will brag (no matter how bad they look) that they can pull a black man away from a black woman any day of the week. (I only wish they were lying) Recently my cousin was telling me about a BM who left a BW who looked like a darker version of Vanessa Williams because some ugly white woman gave him a second look. He dropped his girl like yesterday's news and flew after this homely looking woman. She said the people at school would laugh at how he would drop everything when this woman called, and that the BW would just shake their heads. They were not surprised at all just saddened. why am I relaying all this information? Because I want you sistas to recognize a damaged man. Damaged does not just mean someone who is committing criminal offenses and engaging in all manner of malefaction. Damaged, at it's most fundamental level means a man who is mired in self-hate and secretly hates you because you remind him of the part of himself that he cannot accept. Can you fix him? HELL NO! Only God can fix this poor creature! The only thing you can do is steer clear! Do not let him in your life, your kid's lives, or even your dog's life.
This person will only drag you down. That is all damaged people can do. Doe's it make sense that someone who is emotionally unhealthy, can relate to you on a healthy level? Of course not. Black women we have been sold a bullshit bill of goods by the BC. It is not our job to repair and mend these broken, damaged, and often dangerous men. The most important thing we must do is the steer clear of the damage and find loving mates for ourselves, good fathers for our offspring and have a good a life as possible. Sistas life is too damn short to waste precious time on trying to repair/save someone else- SAVE YOURSELVES!