Does he love BW? or just want to be a BW Lover?-find out ..... + Wealth tips (scroll down)

Nobody truly loves black women more than Bobby D.

Bill M., on the other hand is a just a man with a fetish.

Ladies, many of you seem very concerned that you will be used by wm as a fetish or a flavor of the month. Many of you are so scared of being used, you are not even owning your greatness. Let me tell you something that may ease your minds a bit. Yes, some wm want to use bw for sex! Hello MANY bm will use bw for sex! Yet I never hear sistas worrying about that, isn't that peculiar? But like I said let me ease your mind about this perpetual concern, that seems to plaque many bw. Let me tell you a little secret, you all should never forget. The best indicator of future behavior is past behavior! What that means is that if someone has done something in the past, they are likely to take the same action again. If you really want to know whether he could be serious or just a playboy, look to his past. Has he had relationships with sistas before? Has he married before? Has he had committed relationships before? Or, was he always 'with a white woman' while sleeping with a black one? This, Ladies is a surefire indicator that he simply has a fetish, and bw are his delicacy. Don't let him whet his appetite with you! Remember that most men are just not clever enough to cover their tracks well. They will give themselves away every time. Anna Nicole 'knew' that as a beautiful stripper she could make that billionaire do whatever she wanted and give her whatever she wanted. How? Because his previous girlfriend (a much younger stripper, who died having plastic surgery) had gotten everything she wanted from him by doting on him and being sexy. Anna knew if that woman could do it. she could too. And she did. Men are so transparent that many women will find that the women their husband's cheated on them with look amazingly similar to them! Look at Ivana and Marla Maples. Bo Derek and Linda and even John's first wife Ursala Andrews looked remarkably similar to his 2nd and 3rd wife. It was like he was marrying the same woman (albeit younger) each time. The point is many men will tell you all you need to know about them if you will just listen, and watch. Robert D. has always loved sistas we all know that. His wife will always be black. Bill M. on the other hand is a man with a fetish. Do you see the difference. He loves a sista in his BED! Yes he takes them out and does not hide them-so the hell what! Who among you want to be someone's bed warmer instead of his wife? Watch what a man does. Listen to what he says. Men are just not smart enough to hide their tracks for long. Remember they will AlWAYS give themselves away....

Here are some signs that he's looking for something more serious -possibly marriage....

1. He's respectful

2. He wants to spend more time with you

3. He talks to you about the good, bad, and insignifigant things in his life.

4. He introduces you to his family

5. He looks at you 'proudly'

6. He treats you like you are something special

7. He is extremely interested in pleasing you

8. He has extremely good manners and behaves like a gentleman

9. He refuses to let others speak ill of you

10. He thinks you're beautiful even when you look like whoopi (no offense whoopi) and takes you everywhere.

Here are some signs that he just has a fetish for bw (RUN!)

1. He calls only at night

2. He wants to come over late, (no date just a late call) -don't let him!

3. You have never met his best friend or his family

4. You only seem to go out to strange, far away places

5. He looks embarrassed when ww look at you two together.

6. He seems to be uncomfortable with you in public

7. He lets him family and friends say nasty things about you- or ignore you.

8. He makes a lot of sexual references to your body and barely notices your face

9. He's always groping you, even when you ask him to stop.

10 He seems to be rushing the relationship toward the bedroom even after you tell him -you want to take it slow... /He does not seem genuinely interested in the 'real' you.

11. Instead of looking at you with pride, and respect- he constantly 'leers'

12. He does not give a damn about the things you think, because he 'knows' you won't be around long enough for it to matter...

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For those of you who keep emailing me asking for wealth tips -they are back! keep reading....

1. Car flea Market Riches!
Here is a very easy way to make thousands of dollars per month. Many men will take to this idea but there is no reason why a woman cannot do it, provided she takes measures to protect herself from strangers....

You see in the paper every day people selling cars and people buying cars. A great number of those ads are really from car dealers who take over the newspaper much to the frustration of people who want to buy from the seller to avoid the high dealer costs/add ons. You can help the buyers and the sellers, as well as make a fortune each month by simply creating a car flea market....

Many ideas to make a fortune are easy to come up with. An idea does not have to require a PHD to think up or facilitate. Unfortunately many people cannot grasp the simply realization that simple things can often make more money than the complicated. Look at the paper clip for example... To implement this simple plan go out and find a decent sized lot. Abandoned drive ins are great but there are any number of spaces that can be made usable for this simple purpose. When you find a decent spot negotiate with the owner on a lease fee. That done, advertise in the paper that you have car lot where people can display their cars for 25.00 per vehicle. Try to get some publicity from the radio stations or advertise heavily in the newspaper or use bandit signs etc. Any number of ways will get you customers, and this type of business will grow by word of mouth bigger each month. It's fairly easy to be pulling in 10,000 per month in this easy business within a few months with some work. You can let vendors come for free and take a small percentage of their profit or make them pay up front. All negotiations are between buyers and sellers you have nothing to do with problems with any cars or anything like that. You are merely the 'place' where the transactions occurred. This businesses can be operated for most of the year and many people are getting quite wealthy in ventures of this kind. Simply write up an agreement stating your terms (25.00 per vehicle, you are not liable for any transactions etc.) Get a signed agreement from each vendor and put it in a file (you can use a folder in an ordinary drawer-but don't lose it) You can have a mechanic there who charges for vehicle inspections and you can take a percentage of his profit! Use your imagination wealth is for the taking not for the dreamers.....

2. Car Service Reminders.....
Many people are so very busy that they cannot remember to have their car serviced. Then they have problems at the worst times (ie bad neighborhoods, late at night, all alone etc.) You can approach any number of dealers, and have too much business to handle in no time. You would be taking over service reminders (which many dealers are too busy to undertake) you would send postcards to the people who are due for service and take a percentage of everyone who comes in to have the service done. You would negotiate with the dealer on how much of a percentage, but a good rule of thumb is 20%. With just 3-4 dealers you could easily make double what most people are making working 40 hours per week! This is a bit detailed as there is a lot of record keeping. This type of biz would be best for someone who is detailed oriented and loves numbers. If that sounds like you-give it a try. You can print up business cards and presto! You are in business honey. The dealers will be so happy to have this tedious task off their hands they will practically overwhelm you! Just keep your day job and let it grow-and it will try it and you'll see......

3. Details for rich kids!
If you have kids who want to make extra money and you have a good amount of drive way or lawn space, try this: Place this ad in paper or around town.
Best Car Detail in town! done by young professions-working their way to college! People love to help young people get to college and as long as your children are responsible (not too young now) they will let them clean and detail their cars especially if the work is superior and the prices are a little less. Always supervise your children and teach them to very, very carefully detail the cars (you can easily get a library book on this) 3 kids can do a very good job in about 45 minutes and by charging 25 % less than a typical detailer for your area you WILL get jobs. USE the paper, or bandit signs or word of mouth if you want to build slow and steady. What most people do not realize is that almost anything can become a business. I was reading recently about a young kid who started taking back the neighbors trash cans as a courtesy in an area where they receive heavy fines for leaving cans out. (125.00) Many people had to leave work to go take their garbage cans back to the house from the street! As a result he soon had numerous people who begged him to do the same for them. He began to charge 5.00 per house and made so much money he quit his job and hired his 2 sisters. One as a secretary and the other to help him recruit more kids so he could expand. Within months he was making more than his parents who have worked for years by adding 2 more neighborhoods! You must learn to think outside the box. You have million dollar ideas EVERYDAY -its time to dust off a few and put them to work......
thanks for tuning in see you next time -S