Many WW don't think black women deserve any man-esp. a successful one...

I heard recently about Tameka getting upset over all of the WW who would blatantly throw themselves at Usher even if she were there! It reminded me of my childhood all over the US but particularly in Hawaii.....
I remember back when I was a child. We were Marine Corps people who lived all over the US. In my 13th year, Daddy moved us all to Hawaii. We were so excited because we had never been to Hawaii and now we were going to live there! We happily settled in not knowing what to expect, and I remember that it was nothing like what we had expected. For one, I remember being shocked that so many Hawaiians had slanted eyes. In seems the orientals had come over years ago to pick the rice and sugar cane. One thing led to another and now many, many Hawaiians are mixed with Chinese, Japanese Korean etc. I was shocked also that there were so many races in Hawaii, and the Hawaiians seemed to resent this. many Hawaiians wanted the Islands to stay pristine, undeveloped and free of mainlanders (as they called us). But the thing that I remember the most is how many white women used to snatch up servicemen like my daddy. I remember seeing many black, Hawaiian, and Samoan women lose their men to white women! The men seemed to be a hot commodity, they came with benefits, Travel, discretionary income and retirement pay. the white women seemed drawn to the servicemen like bees to honey. I remember one incident in particular. Daddy was a fantastic cook, and there was little our neighbors enjoyed more than one of his many get-togethers, which included one of his many delicious meals. He was extremely gregarious and would make friends at the drop of a hat. He was also quite handsome, funny and loved to cook and entertain people. Women who ignored my mother like she was not good enough to share their air would suddenly become the most loving, adoring fawning people around my father. Since Daddy loved people in any color, we always had every race at our house. I remember at one of these get-togethers, one of the neighbors invited a young white couple who had very little money and very little food. The wife was blown away by Daddy's food (this was extremely common) and his personality (this was equally as common). She laughed far to loud and long at every thing he said. I could see my mother becoming more and more uncomfortable, but I thought she was being silly and jealous because the wife was so young. -only 18 at the time. The wife would rush to fill Daddy's glass before he could even ask my mother, and gushed on about what a fabulous cook he was, and how handsome he looked. She refused to leave with her husband, and said she would catch a ride later. This did not seem to sit well with my mother, who clearly wanted her gone. When the person driving her home finally said they had to leave, she jumped up and hugged my father (a stranger to her) and kissed his cheek, looking adoringly into his eyes. I remember one of the neighbors jumping up to grab my mother, who was quietly reaching for a skillet. Luckily the girl finally realized she was in danger and made a hasty retreat. But after that, she, would show up uninvited even after my mother asked her to stop. She would make open displays toward my father, not caring that he had a wife and 4 children. Mommy also had a white Avon lady who made it a point to come only after daddy got home from work. She would mysteriously know when he was home and only then would she come smiling at him and ignoring mommy. Later, I remember a white woman breaking down in front of our home (not sure whether it was an accident). Daddy went out to help her and suddenly she started to show up at our house numerous times! My poor mother became increasingly agitated and short-tempered. I remember at the time being so young that I did not see the problem. I thought it was great all these women followed my father like he was some kind of celebrity. Only later after my mother told me she had gone to the home of one with a bat, did I start to understand. They were trying to take daddy away from us! This left me feeling scared and worried. All of these women were young and white. according to my friends, this made them very dangerous to a black woman and we should be prepared to lose daddy to one of these women! My sisters and I began to worry constantly, until daddy sat us down and let us know that he was not going anywhere. He said that he loved mommy and she was the only woman he would ever love and that he was not interested in these white women. We could rest easy again and life returned to normal for us, but unfortunately many of mommy's female friends (of various colors, but mostly black ) did end up losing their husbands to many white women and were forced to leave military life because they no longer had a husband. I can remember being in the PX numerous times and seeing white women cut their eyes at married black women if she happened to have a husband with her. They seemed to feel ALL the men belonged to them....